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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We do this once a month. Minus the hotel room, ha.  And it’s less Big. But we get delivery of all the things and sit in the living room.  We snuggle and ask some questions about how we felt communication went the last month, what’s working well, anything we want to focus on, anything that feels unresolved or upsetting that the other didn’t bring up, how intimacy felt. Stuff like that.

It isn’t that weird once you start doing it, and I really feel like it’s helped both feel happy as we think back on the month and also not keep upsetting things pushed down that, for whatever reason, we didn’t bring up at the time. Stops resentment from building over little or big things.

We cuddle and enjoy food and maybe have sex or watch a show after. It’s a really nice thing.  We both came from pretty challenging relationships before, and this feels healthy.
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Once a month?! How long have you been together? [/quote]

Almost four years.[/quote]

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