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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I don't see this working out. He sounds like he is a sex addict. He would have to be highly motivated to change, yet, he has not.

I also think he is banging hookers. The story there seems implausible. Some men do this regardless of regular sex at home.

I hope you have spoken to a lawyer and gotten your ducks in a row. Could he be fired if his company IP detects porn during work hours? [/quote]

Some men use VPNs, thinking they will not get caught, not realizing that work computers can always track, regardless.  What if he loses his job, OP? 
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The porn could be on his phone.

OP, if you are not a troll, you need to try to get better help re: this or you are going to be leaving your kids in a seedy seamy situation 50% of the time. You need a marriage counselor who works with sexually compulsive men and he needs a psych eval to try to identify underlying drivers. You need to be 100% clear that he is on dating sites and watching porn during the work day. It may or may not work but at least you will have tried. Who knows who or what he might bring into your kids' lives without a real attempt to address things? [/quote]

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