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[quote=Anonymous]I have a physician DH who works a lot or when he is home too tired to do much. At some point, you accept the life you have or you leave. Going back to work won't help him step up, but if it gives you personal satisfaction and you want to start your own income stream then doing sometimes possibly part-time can be a good start. Full-time is hard because you can't oursource everything like the "mental" labor of the kid/household. Get as much help as you can. I work about 30-35 hrs per week. I have a cleaning person once a week, part time nanny, and housekeeper every week to help take care of things. If my husband is home on a weekend night and not having to cover call, I make it a point to go out and have dinner with my girlfriends. I have a tight knit group of girlfriends some with physician spouses too who understand. [/quote]
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