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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ILs are both dead now, but my BIL was very much a failure to launch guy, and while I would not be surprised to learn that mental health issues contributed to that, they weren't the only factor at play. After my FIL died, my MIL would occasionally wonder what would happen "if" she weren't around (she couldn't bring herself to say "when" she died). My spouse would mumble something noncommittal, and I would say, "Well, he may surprise us all one day!" Neither of us promised to take care of him, because NFW. And when my MIL died, he rented a room from a family he knew and did temp work. Then he rented a room in a household of friends from a church group. He seems fine. [/quote] Grateful that he has been able to make it happen to the best that he can. Wish all could work out this way.[/quote]
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