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[quote=Anonymous]Stick to remembering the moment when you knew you needed divorce. Don't look back. I used to beat myself up for the way it happened, but I had a flashback to when my ex said he wasn't going to work on himself or the relationship at all while I was doing everything I could - individual therapy and couples - and so I know no matter what I did it wouldn't have worked. To stay married I would've had to swallow my needs for the next 45 years (I was 40 at the time). I'm actually excelling and even though finances are harder and I have my down days - probably about 1/7 - I just focus on the things within my control, see my therapist weekly, learn about personal finance, and do and enjoy the things I never would've gotten to do if I stayed married.[/quote]
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