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[quote=Anonymous]						Your wife wants connection with you, op. Sometimes a lady needs her husband way more than she needs a therapist. Plus, what’ wrong with your wife wanting connection with you. The roses are something she can look at and smell, people notice them and then she can coo about how her sweet husband put them in or helped or even heck just suggested it, but no, you want to send her to therapy while you go hide in the bathroom to fix a leak.. with what time, op? 
As for the prioritizing the kids, of course she agreed to that, every good mom would. That being said, she’s a human and a woman first and you seem to be using her as a means to an end. 
Why can’t you cook the lamb together or even cook it while she takes the kids to activities if they really all that important, and yes, sometimes they really are. 
I know for me, I stop liking my husband when his priorities seem to be about everything but me. I feel like I’ve been put in the freezer just waiting for him to decide he cares about me. Long term goals are good, it’s good to care about other people, but you and your wife need to take care of each other and of your marriage. Nobody else can do that, not unless the end of the marriage is an option which it will be if you guys don’t step it up. Say what you will about your wife, you are the one refusing to treat her like a beloved spouse. I’d bet that if she is silly, she’ll be less so once you start getting some warm affection back into the day to day with your wife. [/quote]

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