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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hate to sound cold-hearted, but this problem has an end point, and it's probably not that far away. If you can't work less or change anything, then at least you can look forward to that (without telling DH, of course). [/quote] They’ve been at it for five years. No more moves. Stay in the existing nursing home, hospital or hospice. If her condition deteriorates, go to hospice and avoid any interventions. This can be really hard but is far less cruel to the patient. DH’s grandmother made a point of picking the kid who stand by her wishes for power of medical decisions. There were two others who completely lost their minds that he declined interventions she wouldn’t have wanted but could have prolonged her life a few months. She died peacefully in hospice. The nurses were relieved that he held firm. [/quote]
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