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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here , I do want to protect my children. However, why should there be a "burden" on me to protect her? She didn't think about us when she was having her affair...[/quote] OP, you are clearly hurting, and I think you are feeling a burden because that hurt is wanting to be seen. I would give you a hug if I could. But this is not about protecting her. It is about protecting your kids because this is information they don't need right now and will be a burden on them. You need understanding and emotional support, but your kids are not the ones to provide it. Perhaps you are feeling a pressure to hold it all together and show no cracks, and at the same time feeling a burden that it is too much to hold it all together. Find a therapist and let yourself let some of this out. You need time to process what is happening. [/quote]
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