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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]An adult who yells at anyone is unacceptable. Yes, we all makes mistakes, so maybe it happens once a decade. But, an adult who yells daily has a serious problem. Draw a boundary. Learn to say, “I understand you’re upset, but it’s unacceptable to yell at me. I am going to walk away and do something else. We can discuss this later when you’re able to do so calmly.”[/quote] My spouse raises his voice and yells, often in the car when I'm driving and in front of the young kids. We try to catch up on things, he doesn't read his emails or texts - then can't find then, then gets angry and bullies me and yells. And of course blames me. for his yelling. "You make me do this." I've calmly repeated myself: Stop yelling in the car. Stop raising your voice. Take a break, we will resolve the issue when you're calm. He's scary. Once I said Stop yelling like a freak, and he yelled about how I was name calling and an awful person. It's like he wants us to get in an accident on the freeway. [/quote] He knows he's got you trapped. My abusive DH does this too. I no longer will ride with him even if it means taking 2 cars. [/quote]
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