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[quote=Anonymous]I agree w/ 10:33 - you have two options, both of which feel crummy for you. So you have to figure out which is best for you. 1 - grit your teeth and host, and do your level best not to care what they think. They're strangers! If they're rude - screw it, you'll never have to see them again. You know you held up your end of the deal w/ your parents and you learned to not say yes to things in the future without giving yourself time to actually think about it. 2 - grit your teeth and say you're very sorry but it turns out you're not able to do this. You can provide restaurant suggestions if you like, but you can just say no. Without explanation. Or you can make up an excuse for why you're not going to be available after all - no one needs to know if it's a lie or not. Or you just say "I'm sorry - I'm just not able to." You disappoint your father, and you end up feeling proud of yourself for managing to do that. Really only you can decide OP. [/quote]
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