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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I finally met a lovely man. I think he runs deficit of about $700 every month. He works his tail off and didn't buy anything outrages. It's temporary and I will gladly help him fix it. I would even help him if we weren't together.[/quote]

Really? You would financially help a single adult man? Mega turn off.[/quote]

Yeah, nope. I’ve established my life independently and am not tying myself to just another dead weight. [/quote]

So what kind of income/wealth do you expect a man to have?[/quote]

Enough disposable income to match mine. Enough free time to match mine. [/quote]

Sure, but what constitutes matching yours?[/quote]

I'm a woman make about 300K a year. My average weekend outing is about $150; I take one large vacation a year at about $20K, couple small trips in the range of $5k. So it's about $15,000 on travel and $3600 on dates that a BF would need to match my expenses on entertainment and travel only. If we move in together, we would be saving on mortgage/rent so not a bad deal for him overall[/quote]

Unless you are thin and 25 years old, no deal lady. [/quote]

Married 45yo here. Whenever I think about getting divorced, I come on here and feel grateful to have DH. I can’t imagine being single and meeting a man who doesn’t have bare minimum what pp is requesting. I would think the guy should be taking me away but to not even be able to afford his half for the date and trips??? No thanks.[/quote]

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