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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He has some misogynistic tendencies and deep down, thinks this time is more important than yours. That’s the crux of it, but you can’t force him to change.

Honestly, I would withhold sex. This assumes you’re having regular sex. If he starts pouting, that you can say, “[b]when you act incompetent, it makes you unsexy.”[/b] I bet you he would change the game real quick. Again, I know it’s petty, but if he wants to be foolish, he can reap the consequences.

One of the things I really like about my husband is he’s “a real man.” He plans things, he organizes. He’s dependable on big and little things. And that is hot. A real man is hot.[/quote]
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I’ll try that but I think it’d be met with a bunch of gaslighting and excuses about how busy he is providing his half the income to the household. He’s just so busy and important. And can’t give up his 8-10pm Netflix time. Or touch his dirty dishes from WFH each day. [/quote]

So? He can’t argue you into sex with him. Just shrug your shoulders and turn over and go to sleep.[/quote]

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