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Reply to "This is weaponized incompetence, yes? What to do about it?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous[b]]Help. Teach. Make it easier. Encourage. Praise. Reward. Boast about it to others from where he can hear. [/quote][/b] No, she shouldn't have to do all of that. this is a marriage. Barring an excuse like ADHD, they need couple's therapy so he can HEAR how frustrating this is for her. This is not acceptable[/quote] +1 She signed on to marry him, not be his mother and train him like a dog. [/quote] And if she *does* train him, she'll be accused of being a nag, etc. That's the suck of weaponized incompetence: even trying to address it causes problems. Ask him what story he's comfortable telling about himself. "Are you saying you're not capable of looking up which cleaners we have and what they're used for?" "Are you saying you're not capable of..." is usually enough to make a person with any self-respect who can do better.[/quote]
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