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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Curious to the women experiencing dryness:  what about lube?
—woman approaching 50[/quote]

It's not just dryness, and lube doesn't cut it.

The structures in the genital area atrophy with age, even if you are on HRT. It doesn't stretch and absorb a pounding the way it did before the change of life. It really, really hurts to have PIV sex unless maybe your partner has a wee roll of dimes for a penis.[/quote]

DP
Probably some of the older women use toys to keep it in shape.
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Mid 50s man here.  I've dated several over 50 women.  The "can't take a pounding" problem is an issue with some women but not most.  Taking it slow and having some oral first usually works.  I had one short term GF who couldn't get comfortable with oral and told me she really liked hard, fast, pounding type sex when she was younger.  She was very upset by what happened to her body.  I was her first sexual partner post menopause and she was devastated because her body didn't respond the way it had 3 years earlier.  We broke up before we had much of a chance to experiment with different lubes.  Fortunately, this has not been a problem with most women her age, as long as I go slow.[/quote]

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