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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Cordial is probably more than I could handle in this situation, so good for them.

I'd also struggle not to be disappointed in my child staying with this person, which would be much harder. [/quote]

I have a schitzophrenic and HFA spouse; it all hit the fan during Kid 2 pregnancy. He's unmasked and verbally sparred with my father and my mother. Family courts and lawyer consults don't care, he'd get 50/50 and he'd take it for ego and image purposes.

But he's nuts. Coparenting with a lunatic workaholic who thinks parenting and homeownership is the easiest thing ever because it means doing nothing, is also nuts.

I don't kiss his butt but my side of the family kind of does. Because whatever happens, he takes it out on me. He actually believes my own parents hate me, and I'm the bad guy.

I literally had each of my parents write him a letter and notarize it 2 years ago spelling out the truth of what they actually thought about him and spelling out his episodes HE did in front of them. They included photos of things he lied about not doing or knowing about too. A lawyer will give that to him upon the second survivor's death, and will give a copy to the children once they are over age 21, upon request. I have 8 years of digital files, videos, voice recordings, photos, log books, as well saved off premis. Lawyers have reviewed, it would not result in even supervied visitation, given he has a white collar job and can provide shelter, food, and clothing to kids.[/quote]

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