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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why not actually work on becoming the partners you want each other to be? Sit down, discuss it as third option and work on it.[/quote] DP. That third option is not always viable. Sometimes people like who they are and don't want to change for a partner. My sister is quiet and sweet. She realized that she had to be more outspoken to make her marriage work. She was not interested in changing who she was. She does very well in other aspects of her life. And there is no way her DH would change if she was not more outspoken. So the marriage was doomed and she knew it. [/quote] That’s fine if there are no kids involved. If there are kids in the picture one or both spouses should consider not being so selfish and self-absorbed. “But I LIKE me!” Guess what? Your kids don’t give a crap how much you like yourself. Your kids want a stable family.[/quote]
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