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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am amazed at how many people here are concerned with being kind to someone who is being mean to them. Why? Once you're mean to me you don't deserve my kindness. And the people who consider being direct to be "too harsh" drive me nuts too. I was just chatting with someone who I know casually and she said she likes me because I will always tell her the truth, which evolved into a conversation about being direct vs. nice and whether those have to be different. [/quote] Nice = Toxic and Nice !=kind. [url]https://hbr.org/2021/06/the-hazards-of-a-nice-company-culture[/url] People want to be polite and not particularly kind nor supportive. It's about their comfort instead of supporting/guiding someone.[/quote]
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