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[quote=Anonymous]I…honestly see very little appealing about this man. And I get the control/hypercompetence thing—frequently you do just need to drop the rope and be ok with “clean clothes that aren’t folded” or “a meal of snacks plus cheese”. But if he can’t do that, and he’s not providing the kids with emotional connection nor their basic needs, then what is the point? It sounds profoundly lonely. And at that point it would be better to be alone than together and lonely. I’d get a robust settlement/child support, plan that he’ll fade out as an involved father, and hire a special needs babysitter and get some god damn down time. (Also, you’ve dropped in a number of hints, but I wonder if it will be easier to parent your high needs children without your husband. Kids can pick up on a lot. At the very least you might have more energy). [/quote]
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