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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you attractive? What do you offer?

My 35yo BIL says slim pickings for dating. I know he gets lots of matches online but he always finds faults with women. His problem is that he wants the total package unicorn of looks, brains, kindness, etc. he is very unforgiving of any body fat. BIL is not bad looking, definitely above average but he is not a 10. He wants a 10 in looks. 10 in brains. 10 personality. What he is finding is 9 looks [b]5 brains [/b]5 personality or 6 looks 10 brains 6 personalities.[/quote]

kind of O/T but what are 5 brains like? HS dropouts?[/quote]

Pp here. College grad from not so good college. BIL went to top college and grad school and values educational pedigree. He also wants looks and a personality. He does earn over a million dollars per year so high for his age group. He can’t find what he wants. He also likes natural looking girls so girls who look like tens but not plastic looking girls. He is very specific.[/quote]

I date the kind of women he likes on a fraction of his salary. There must be something “off” about him. [/quote]

He is 5’11” so not really tall. He is decent looking but not so good looking that girls would trip over him. He is smart and successful but he isn’t flashy so it may not be obvious that he makes a lot of money. He doesn’t seem to go for young girls. He keeps meeting and dating women in their thirties who he deems not someone he sees a future with.

We have set him up with a handful of women and he isn’t interested. I have given up. Most recently, my friend’s friend was perfect but BIL didn’t find her attractive enough. The mom thinks the world of her daughter and couldn’t understand why BIL wasn’t interested. I don’t remember what I said but I couldn’t say your daughter isn’t pretty enough.[/quote]

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