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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, you are being petty and spiteful. And, your children are watching and learning. And if one of yours is a boy, one day you will be the mother in law. Suck it up buttercup, and go visit more often.[/quote] What did I just read??? Your husband can drive the kids when he is available. How many times did your husband drive out to visit your dad when he was sick? How many times did he do it alone without you? Follow his lead on this. This is not petty. It’s just the opposite. Don’t martyr yourself to the point that you become resentful. The one thing I do agree is that your children are watching. If you teach your boys that it’s their future wife’s responsibility to maintain a relationship with you, that is exactly what they will do. Is that you want? Do you want your son visiting you or do you want him to outsource your relationship to his wife? [/quote]
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