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[quote=Anonymous]I think you’re being a jerk, but not without justification. I don’t think you owe her a visit. You’re not obligated to visit her, but it would be a kindness. I wouldn’t count on your MIL being struck with remorse for his she treated you. I think this is more of a question of what kind of person you want to be. Do you want to model yourself after her bad example, or do you want to be a better person who will show kindness and grace to someone, even if they don’t deserve it. Something else you might want to consider is your kids’ feelings on the matter. If they genuinely want yo visit grandma, it might be worth doing it for them. On the other hand, if they have no interest or if they’re busy and don’t want to set aside their plans, I think you’ve got more leeway and even additional justification for skipping the visits. [/quote]
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