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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m very curious about this. My XH definitely liked women (and is currently with a woman now). But one day when our marriage was on the rocks he suggested an open marriage and threesome. I assumed he wanted two women at the same time but he said he wanted another man, not so he could watch him with me but *to do him from behind*. We never did it and eventually divorced but this statement of his still lives rent free in my brain. [/quote]

Maybe he just really wanted to try anal but couldn't find a woman who would do it.[/quote]

Yeah, I know it’s popular, but the really wanting to try anal in and of itself is pretty gay. Most straight men are perfectly happy with a self-lubricating, feces-free vagina.[/quote]

I don’t think that’s true at all. I’ve had lots of sex with lots of men who were very hetero and they were all interested in the anal option - which isn’t an option with me. I think typical hetero men in particular will F any hole they can, if they can get away with it.[/quote]

Correct.

DH here.  Straight guys like anal, but ONLY with women (not men).

Pretty sure gay dudes or bis want to kiss (and do other stuff) with another man.  NO THANK YOU!  [/quote]

How exactly do you know what ALL straight guys like or don't like?[/quote]

Guys talk.  Not so much now that we are all married.  But during my dating years, we talked, and often anal (with women) came up when guys talk about s*x.  It is a lot more common than you might think and yes- there are many, many women who enjoy it (as in: they like it; they want to do it).  Is it “all” straight guys or all women ? Of course no one can know everything. But it is quite common.

But I have never known a straight guy who even hinted he had done stuff with other guys, or even fantasized about that.  [/quote]

Obviously they are not going to tell you about it.  There are plenty of straight guys who seek out hookups with men when their wife or GF is out of town.  They might be bi or gay curious or they might actually be straight and horny and not want to hookup with a woman for whatever reason.  You need to broaden  your perspective a little and stop thinking in black and white when there are a million shades of gray.[/quote]

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