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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For all who say, "Move near family". What if the family decides to move after the elderly parents moved near you? Will you give consideration to your parents who moved to be near you?

I ask because if I were to move where my kids are, what if they decide to move later?  My spouse and I have siblings who moved all over the world.

This is the fear I have about moving near to my kids one day.

Also, elderly people make moves based on finances.

NoVA area is not cheap. Maybe your ILs made their decision based on low taxes?[/quote]

This has to be a discussion with your family. Most people I know don't move out of a region once they have kids, but there are exceptions.

I think the families that pool resources into a multi generation house or buy neighboring houses are really smart, but it's hard for a lot of people to share in that way. There was a window when we were looking to step up from a townhouse and I asked my parents if they wanted to do something like that. They didn't, and now for various reasons (finances, interest rates, age of kids) that window is closed. [/quote]

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