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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]this is not the beginning of this approach. I live in Brooklyn a stone's throw from St Ann's and my own kids are at a "top tier" HS in Manhattan. Lots of blogs, NFPs, YouTube channels and podcasts started in junior year and abandoned 12 months later. But I've also seen plenty of these kids get into HYP - yay! - and graduate and then, because they don't have another consultant (yet) they end up being SAT tutors themselves. Not sure this is the outcome you want for your kids[/quote] And then their connections get them a real job and then go on and the circle of affluent NYC life continues. Yeah, it doesn't change that much. As former New Yorker, I still have a lot of friends there with kids, some at BFS and St Anne's, etc. I think I envy that world more than I like to admit to myself, but I'm also relieved not to have to deal with it. [b]So much that is done because everyone else is doing it. [/b] I don't think the shifts that have abandoned elite schools to the very wealthy and the very poor have been all that great for academic thought, also. Lots of armchair revolutionary kids who suffer no consequences, and kids with genuine grievances who have some of the worst examples of capitalism living next door. [/quote] THIS. Also, the PP who commented about it trickling down to the "not as rich"... so true. I have seen this first hand (and was even guilty getting caught up in it myself for a hot second until a gave myself a proverbial slap across the face). We live really well but we aren't multiple homes and private plane rich and honestly, we have no business getting caught up in all this. Not to mention, DC's private has a great group of college counselors. These independent companies are getting paid by very wealthy families with kids who have the kind of resources and free time to start three NFP's that a lot of regular teens don't have and likely, would be getting into top tier schools anyway (even if it meant falling up) because the schools see [i]donation[/i] written all over them. In some cases they might be part of the tipping point of a certain kid getting in but let's be real - their percentage of acceptance is mostly wholey based on the wealth of the families and the access it affords these students to begin with. These companies get to take "credit" for the admission and it drives more parents to flock to them to drop six figures on years long programs around blogs and b.s.[/quote] Nah. Pre varsity blues maybe. Now? There’s a lot more $$$ than you can imagine and very wealthy ppl (think NW btw $50-200 million) get dinged all the time. Billionaires and celebrities are diff tho. They’ll be fine and end up at NYU; BC; Wake; Tulane etc….but you are not getting into T25 just bc you have deep pockets bc schools see “donation”. The rest has to be there - and fully baked out. [/quote] Not true, obviously.[/quote] Go ahead. You can hate “all” the rich ppl. Class warfare and all - isn’t that the point of all these articles? Ogle and hate the wealthy? But I think some of this shows a lack of understanding about how it works when you are wealthy but not famous….. They don’t just open doors for someone bc they can make a 7 figure donation after kid gets in. It’s not working like that. And if your legacy, you’ve already made that donation anyway. IMO these counselors are trying to create a story for extremely privileged but qualified kids to push them over that line. [/quote] OK, enjoy paying your 1.5mil to an admissions consultant to set up a fake “pointy” narrative then! Boo hoo. [/quote]
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