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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think it's an option- you are either wired that way or you aren't. I am not anxious. I am decisive. I'm detail oriented- so especially if it involves money, I know exactly what I am paying for (dimensions/construction/materials), I'm good at making decisions and have a good people-reader. I don't regret my decisions.

Being indecisive is confusing to me- like passive people or people who can't stand up for themselves. It makes no sense to be this way. I mean some things you don't really care about/are non committal, but everything can't be struggle-bus level 'what to do'.[/quote]

I don't have trouble making decisions, but what I don't understand are people like you. I cannot understand what it is to go through life with no ability to find compassion or understanding for people who are or think differently than you do.

People like you seem to have stalled out somewhere in development.  It would be sad, except you tend to make life unhappy and difficult for those around you with your self-centeredness, rudeness, and hurtfulness.[/quote]

That escalated quickly! You don't think that everyone knows there is a whole world of people out there who are wired differently and with a huge variety of human experiences and processing, deserving of compassion? Some weird conflations and assumptions here and you sound miserable- I am sorry for that. I feel like you need to print out your response here and read it to whomever keeps hurting you.[/quote]

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