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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I’m sorry you’re going through all of this. My DD is a few months shy of 16 and has been very difficult to parent since day 1 compared to my other kids. She came out of the womb wanting to fight, every hill is worth dying on, she’s oppositional about everything. Sometimes she is violent.

She has her own therapist, we have a family therapists and I’ve had her neuro psych tested more than once to just pay tons of money for no diagnosis and no help. None. I’m told her behavior is within the spectrum of “normal”.
The therapists think she’s got some mood disorder. I’m at a loss how to help her, I’ve tried everything.

She has said she hates me, she hates how I make her feel (because in the parent that holds the boundaries), she can’t wait to leave and never come back, etc.

I hate that I am clearly not the right kind of mother to her and she’d probably be better off with some other kind of mother with a different personality. I hate that I’ve failed her that we’ve gotten to this point. I hate that I love her but that I resent her and don’t like her and dream of when she’s out of the house so we have peace and calm. I hate the death by a million pecks of her starting fights over the littlest things. I hate what it’s done to my marriage (we have been discussing separating). I hate what it’s done to my career. I hate it.

You are not alone Op. I’m sorry. [/quote]

This post really hit home for me. I am having almost the exact same experience … and awful, depressing feelings about it. It’s almost like a loss, like I’m grieving. 
 I am so sorry for what you are going through. It sucks. It isn’t fair. You didn’t cause this. There should be a support group for moms like us. [/quote]

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