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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH told me it would make. him happy if I initiate. I told him I'd be a total failure as a straight guy, because I am not an initiator. He pointed out that I initiate in other parts of my life - at work, with friends, etc. It got me thinking, and I am occasionally now initiating. [b]But at first, he missed when I did it, because I guess it was too subtle? [/b] DH gets SO happy when I initiate that it gives me the encouragement to do it more often. So now I probably initiate maybe a third of the time. He's only said no once, which I'm sure has helped.[/quote] Guys are given the warning not to mistake friendliness for an indication that a woman wants sex. The guys who are husband material have taken this to heart. So it’s a mistake to be ambiguous with initiations. [/quote]
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