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Reply to "Sigh, I don't know what to do about DH's meanness"
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[quote=Anonymous]Male here. You say “you said some pretty nasty things to me and have an on again/zoff again nasty streak. I don’t believe anyone especially me as your spouse deserves to be spoken to this way. You can not and I willl not let you speak to me or treat me like that. With that being said is this something you are will to stop and address?” Let him respond. If he starts going of on a tangent or making excuses. Say “i have expressed my feelings and my question is, is this something you are will to address?” If he says any form of no, you have your answer. If he says yes, ask him how he plans to address it. If he says he doesn’t know. Say “why don’t you let me know by Thursday (2-3 day later ) what your plan is. If you need help coming up with a plan why don’t we set aside some time tomorrow night to work on a plan. But this discussion will only be about making a plan not about what happened or anything else”. If [/quote]
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