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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If a 16 year old boy walks up to a girl who looks 16 and asks for her number he hasn’t done something wrong and she doesn’t need to give him a rude response. A “no thanks I’m still in middle school” is fine. Sorry she’s dealing with this, it will eventually even out.[/quote]

No 16 yo boy should walk up to a complete stranger and ask for their number.

Do no bug women on the street with your hormones. Some of us just want to walk places without men thinking they can come into our space.

Better ways to date would be ... get to know girls though clubs, events, friends. Get to know them as a person, if they seem to be a good person and you have like interests and you know their age and know they are not dating seriously or married, ask them out.

Or use an  app.

But please do not teach your sons it's okay to hit on people just trying to get on with their day.[/quote]

I don't know any high school boy who would do this or any girl who has experienced it.  I have 17 year old b/g twins.  I've asked either if this has ever happened and they said no.  They are popular kids who spend each weekend out on Friday and Saturday nights--parties, school sporting events, restaurants, etc.  I have a 14 year old daughter as well who is blond and striking and she doesn't have random boys asking her out either.  Do men look at her?  Sure.  I see their eyes when I'm walking beside her.  But no propositions or phone number asks from teens.  
 Maybe it's cultural.  Who knows.  But in my kid's world it isn't happening.

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