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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I find when there are issues where you both have good judgement, it makes sense for one of you to take the lead and the other to back off a bit. It is a partnership. There are enough other issues to worry about.

That said, I would only relax if he can really be trusted on this stuff.[/quote]

+1. And if you have a high stress job, won’t you be relieved to have this off your plate?[/quote]

Yes, I’m open to it, it’s just hard for a type A like me to give up control, and I just want to gage if it is normal and reasonable to do so. Thank you for your reply.

He does sometimes do things in a different way than I would, which can freak me out, but after 10 years I have enough evidence to see that his decisions are very sound.

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Reading between the lines here, you’re clearly a controlling PITA who thinks you’re superior to your husband because you make more money than him, and while you say you trust him you really don’t.  You’re never going to let go, ever, so stop pretending.  Just keep fighting with your husband about money and continue to make him feel inadequate.  That’s the game you’re playing. [/quote]

How long have you hated women? [/quote]

He’s probably a cheating ex who lived in Virginia at the time of his divorce. They never recover. It’s like jerk-induced PTSD.[/quote]

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