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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to stay and take over her financial affairs at all costs. Treat her like a child if need be - don’t ask her, don’t expect her to make decisions. Get online access to everything she has, find out who the beneficiary is on her accounts etc. She is a perfect victim of a scammer or abuser. Please don’t be childish and leave over you “bad cold” or whatever. You are lucky to be able to stay for an extended time, use the chance. [/quote] Thank you for your thoughts. She does nothing online and her desk is locked so I can’t access. I’ve been able to see the retirement and brokerage accounts that my dad handled and have talked to his advisor. If I leave, it will be because I believe she will be better off in the short term to have some time and space to adjust without my aggravating her. She went on a tirade after I said “good morning” today, because how dare I indicate that anything was good.[/quote]
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