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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes I would stop sleepovers.

15 is young, too young to be experimenting sexually IMO.  I also think it is young to declare she is bi.  It seems pretty common for teen girls to claim bisexuality now. What I wouldn’t want is for her to have a sexual experience with a girl before she is mature and emotionally ready.  There is definitely a lot of girl/girl sexual coercion happing at sleepovers.

Plus then there is the gossip.  Just like if you have sex with a boy at 15, it may be shared with others, same thing with a girl.  Is she ready to be “out” at school or assumed to be lesbian?

I would fully support her sexual preference, but at the same time minimizing her opportunities for sexual relationships while still in high school.  [/quote]

15 is the age to explore their sexuality.
I call it explore, because it is time to figure out what that means for them.
How do you explore without experimenting?
When you are mature and emotionally ready, you wouldn't call it a sexual experience.
You’d just call it sex.

Kids already are very fluid with their sexuality.
They don’t mind coming out either way. And they don’t feel trapped in lables
I think you care about them coming out as a gay.
And you really don’t support their sexuality even if you say you do.
What’s the point of minimizing sexual relationship in high school if there’s no threat of getting pregnant?
It’s important part of life and a valuable experience in human relationship.[/quote]

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