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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]		I’d break up with this guy. He’s prioritizing this woman’s feelings over you, and she’s nasty to you. Why stick around. If she at least liked you, I’d ask about their breakup, if they really broke up because he wouldn’t let her take kids that don’t yet exist to church, any church, then he’s abusive. I’d not want to be with someone like that. Fine to say “the people at your church act like they hate me, I don’t want our kid around that” not at all fine to say “No church until they decide”. After all, if he’s a baseball fan, he’s not going to keep his kid away from baseball until he “decides if he likes it”. Totally weird as there is a way to get out of a situation religious or otherwise if it is no longer appropriate. I’d also worry that this guy doesn’t have the skills to be in a relationship with anybody, and in time, you’ll see it, he “doesn’t know how you’ll do as a mom” he “doesn’t know if you know how to be a wife” whatever it is, there will be a reason why he just can’t marry you and it will be all your fault. 
Since this woman doesn’t like you, and your boyfriend isn’t willing to end the friendship, break up with you, or convey by his actions and words that you are his prime everything, just end it. At the risk of sounding weird, think of Santa. You don’t flirt with Santa. You understand that while you may only see him once a year, Mrs Claus gets to see him all the time. You don’t even dream of trying to get Mrs Claus to go away, you treat her with the respect she deserves as Santa’s wife. I had to invoke Mrs. Claus with my kids this year, “Santa was fine with what you wanted, Mrs. Claus was not so you didn’t get it”. I have one kid who has a smart mouth and even she understood that one. Your boyfriend’s friends need to treat you like Mrs. Claus. They may be unhappy with what your boyfriend can and can’t do, but they don’t interfere with the relationship the two of you have. 	[/quote]

this is hilarious and perceptive. you should write an advice column! the story of their breakup sounds fishy indeed. I wonder though if the religion thing was just a coverup for the real reason. [/quote]

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