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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As much as I agree that it can be problematic with the amount of contact he was having with her, I think it's equally problematic you telling him who can and cannot be friends with.

Maybe, instead of him having to go no contact, you ask to be introduced. If they're FaceTime movie watching (that's just weird in my opinion, but whatever), ask to join and be with him on the couch. Join in group texts. If either of them waffles at that, then you've got your problem. But start treating her like you would any other friend he has, and see what happens. [/quote]

It's a little complicated, but we sort of tried that. We were friends on social media and I talked to her sometimes, until she said that her boyfriend had issues with my boyfriend commenting on her social media posts, and defriended/blocked both of us. I don't even care about the social media aspect, but just the amount that they are texting. Before I said anything to him about it, it was constant, like almost daily. It was cut down but even then, who has a 3 hour phone call with a female friend, let alone an ex? Something isn't 100% kosher.[/quote]

If her bf had an issue with her ex commenting on social media posts, then her bf absolutely is not okay with the three-hour marathon texting it ohine call sessions….she just keeps him in the dark about it, just as your bf is about to do ti you.
OP—when you check his phone (as I’m assuming that’s how you saw their texts before) be aware that he likely just changed her contact to a different name. Like instead of Larla, there’s a new text thread with some dude named Larlo that is actually Larla renamed.[/quote]

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