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[quote=Anonymous]I am a recovering codependent and I used to set boundaries like OPs sister. Telling others what they need to do vice saying what I would do as a consequence. If you debate me, I will end the conversation. It really helped me connect my people pleasing tendencies to the boundary work. So I’d guess that sister is struggling with family dysfunction and doesn’t know how to express herself. Be kind, OP. Just shut up and listen. She’s going through a lot. If you just listen, she might feel supported. L. If you are not willing to just support, just back off and find friends that work for you.[/quote]
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