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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like she doesn’t want to have kids and you do. I don’t think that’s something that a lot of people can get past. [/quote] I’m reading it as she does want kids but doesn’t feel they can afford it on their current HHI. Which is a valid concern, especially if she’s making the bulk of the money. [/quote] I guess I read it that she feels kids are optional, and OP feels that getting a higher paying job is optional. Yes, they both want these things in theory and would have them in perfect circumstances. Neither of them are willing to bend at all to try to make things work. Both are saying that what the other person wants is impossible. It’s like a reverse “Gift of the Magi” where both partners are completely self-absorbed. [/quote]
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