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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Teach her to be kind[/quote]

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Does being reciprocal mean align with your family's values?

I would invite her, because those are MY values, which are not dependent on others' behaviors. I would also not hesitate to correct her misbehavior if I see it.[/quote]

My values are kindness, unless it means putting my child in danger or in a situation that will be hurtful to her. So, I don’t care if another kid feels bad for being left out after doing mean things. I wouldn’t make my daughter sacrifice her comfort and safety and happiness on her day for that. I would also explain To my daughter that if she may not be invited to that girls party which it sounds like she wouldn’t mind.

Actions have consequences. And that girl may need to learn the hard way[/quote]

OMG!  Your daughter feels unsafe by a child making snarky remarks and throwing her eraser away.  You are totally raising a snowflake and I feel sorry for her.  As for the “bully” she will learn in middle school either way when the groups get smaller and more intimate.  Until then does she really need you, the adult, teaching her a lesson of exclusion?[/quote]

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