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[quote=Anonymous]While some may insist that "everybody loves their children" I disagree. Google "I hate being a mom" and you'll find MILLIONS of posts by women some of whom eagerly wanted children, planned for them, and now desperately regret their decision.

http://www.justrage.com/I_Hate/i-hate-being-a-fucking-mother-and-i-dont-care-if-you-call-me-a-bitch/

"I hate being a mother.  If you don't have kids, think long and hard before you do.  Those tv commericials are lying to you.  It is not a fairy tale.

My kids are of toddler and preschool age. They fight, scream and demand all the time. I am so unhappy. Noone tells you how awful it is to be a mother. noone! Yes there are little sweet things that happen from time to time but over all it's terrible. I am so exhausted that I can't sleep at night. My nerves are shot from the kids constant yelling, fighting, and having to explain, soothe, or whatevery 24/7. I am tired! The amount of work that it takes to be a Mom and a housewife is inhuman. I never have a moment to just relax because when I am I am thinking about what work has to be done. It's fucked up. Yes I love my kids but I hate mothering them.
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My mother didn't want children. But when she got pregnant at 18 she couldn't find a legal place to get an abortion (it was 1968) so she was stuck. 3 years later she had me. 8 years after that she told me and my sister she was going to get some cigarettes and we didn't see her again for 5 years .

Just please realize if you decide you fucked up when the kid is 3 screaming and biting you, you can't just drop him/ her off at the pound. Unless you are super excited. THRILLED at the idea of becoming a mother, if the work itself is the reward, you will royall screw up at least 3 lives.

http://childfreedom.blogspot.com/2011/08/why-do-women-lie-about-motherhood.html

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