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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]More context is needed. How far away are ILs? Do you have small kids? Did you see them at Christmas? Why does DH want to go for the long weekend?[/quote] No kids. In our thirties. In laws are 20 mins away. He promised his parents at Christmas that we will be spending the New Years weekend with them, in front of me, without prior consultation with me. I didn’t say anything and thought we could discuss in private afterwards. When I did say no, he is flipping out about how he doesn’t want to break their hearts. [/quote] You go and then ask for a trip for just the two of you for Valentine's Day, etc. NBD. Stop looking for a fight.[/quote] Um, no. NYE for a child-free couple should be champagne, caviar and sex, not dominoes with old people.[/quote] You are making a lot of assumptions about the plans for both days. OP is looking for a fight - not a good way to start off the year.[/quote] OP is looking to relax after already seeing family for the holidays. It doesn’t matter if her plans are champagne or a face mask and bed by 10, it’s HER time and she doesn’t want to spend it with them. Get over it, Gladys! [/quote] Maybe DH is BORED and wants to be around other people...[/quote]
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