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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do 99% of the time. I'm always in the mood and I don't expect DH to ever match my drive. But, he's always game so it works out. [/quote]

Impossible! PP wrote: "All women lose spontaneously desire in long term monogamy." [/quote]

I’m the one who said that.  
I am a woman.  I also consider myself high drive, and I initiate frequently.  When I initiate, I am not already turned on.  However, I know that I will, most likely, get turned on over the next 15 minutes.

When pp said that she is always in the mood, she means that she can always get into the mood.  Not that blood flows to her genitals and she’s ready for sex whenever her husband walks into the room.

This was helpful for me to understand because I thought that my husband and I *both* felt this way.  And when I would initiate and he would turn me down, I was hurt that he wouldn’t at least try.  But then I realized that when he initiates sex, he is already kind of stimulated, even before we touch.

I don’t know.  I have found it really helpful to try to better understand where my spouse is coming from.  
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