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[quote=Anonymous]OP: your SIL doesn't like doing your family's Christmas because you are passive aggressive and manipulative. You want to control other people but do so in indirect ways so that you can always claim that you aren't doing it. "Oh I was just worried about mom, who knows how many Christmases she has left after all." It's toxic and annoying AF. Since your SIL and brother live near your mom, they probably prefer to see her at times when you are not around. Or maybe your mom is like you and they distance generally because no one enjoys behavior like this. Think of it this way. In doing this, your SIL is giving you a Christmas gift you will enjoy every single year -- the gift of feeling superior and taking $hit about your relatives when they aren't around. That's actually really sweet of you -- there's probably nothing you enjoy so well.[/quote]
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