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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does your daughter have no idea why this is happening? Why has she been singled out. Is there a boy involved? Is your daughter outshining one of them in some activity? What's behind all of this?[/quote]

great questions. Also, is it mainly one girl driving this, while others go along? Any insight OP? [/quote]

She has no idea why and she is tortured over this fact. She just wants to know why. She never talks bad about other girls. She goes out of her way to be nice to everyone. She has a reputation of being nice but I think these kids read that as a weakness and want to tear her down. She hosts parties, big and small and includes everyone. She is pretty. She is “relevant” in that everyone knows who she is. Athletic but not a star. She has a very nice academic athletic boyfriend who goes to a public school. The bullying consists of ignoring her or talking over her at school, snide comments disguised as “jokes”, exclusion and the drunk girl at the party called her annoying slut over and over again and bragged about stealing the so called BFF who watched the whole thing go down and egged it on. [/quote]

She sounds like she has a lot going for her.

But, what do you mean she "hosts parties". You said you live in a small apartment, where are these parties at? Since alcohol was a factor at the sleepover, what's happening at these parties?

Your read on her may not be the same as everyone else's. You say she's nice, inclusive, pretty, athletic, basically perfect. But, you're her mom, not exactly an unbiased source. [/quote]

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