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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He had no ambition.
He didn't read.
He was terrible with money
He had mood disorders--
He drank too much.
He made us walk on egg shells.
He wasn't fun to talk to so we didn't talk

We met young and it was great for a long time because he was fun, social, adventurous, we had the same friends, he was good looking etc.   Grow old and all that wears off.   He eventually cheated on me.   I am so much happier now.

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Same. I don't get why they change What is it about the younger years that they think they want a married life and then hate it? It's not like they didn't grow up in a family and don't know what they are getting into.[/quote]

To add on, it's a mentality thing. The doctor this morning was so friendly and caring and kept asking questions making sure I was ok and checking that he did everything well. Huge smile. I told him I noticed how alert and attentive he was and he said it was because his 3 year old is always an adventure in the morning so he's wide awake by the time he comes into the office. Was talking pridefully about his wife having a new baby. He had a job in the morning and a preschooler and a pregnant wife and it was like nothing could keep him down. I don't understand why for some people it's just a facade and how you weed that out.[/quote]

How do you know what he is showing you isn’t a facade? That’s very common among doctors. They are at their best with patients not with their own families.[/quote]

This is true of any high-performing customer-facing person, I think. We're all the perfect family men/women in front of our clients...[/quote]

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