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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He had no ambition.
He didn't read.
He was terrible with money
He had mood disorders--
He drank too much.
He made us walk on egg shells.
He wasn't fun to talk to so we didn't talk

We met young and it was great for a long time because he was fun, social, adventurous, we had the same friends, he was good looking etc.   Grow old and all that wears off.   He eventually cheated on me.   I am so much happier now.

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Same. I don't get why they change What is it about the younger years that they think they want a married life and then hate it? It's not like they didn't grow up in a family and don't know what they are getting into.[/quote]

Lol, in his case, his family was dysfunctional.  But to be fair, we all change.  What I valued as a young person--fun, social, life of the party stopped being fun when we had kids.  I wanted someone who was available, didn't sleep in, didn't want to go out all the time and come home drunk etc.   In our case, we both grew up to be incompatible.  That was just the icing.  Below that was also a person with mental health issues that had me walking on eggshells and feeling terrible about myself. He also turned out to be a serial cheater.  What I liked about him at age 21 just did not exist in any form at age 38 with two kids.[/quote]

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