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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In my house, we would allow them to sleep in the same room. I want my kids to visit and I want them to want to visit and I want to make it enjoyable for them. If your 20 something kid has a boyfriend of one year, they feel comfortable sharing a room and your policy is just going to make them get a hotel or not come - as they have demonstrated. I get your "morals" are different so that's fine - you can stick to your morals, but then the adult children will do as they prefer. I'd rather have my family together. --mom of kids 22 and 18 and I let both of their long-term partners stay at my house over the holidays. I know many folks wouldn't but [b]I also know those people's kids are not spending that much time at home.[/b] My home, my values.[/quote] This is the crux of OPs DH issue. He wants to be able to control an adult and isn't happy that she's setting some boundaries. [/quote]
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