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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you TELL her that you were asking her to take the kids because you had a date to go on? You were inviting drama. It's ridiculous but you should not have done that. Hopefully things will calm down but wisen up. And you really should be using your time with the kids to spend with the kids, not on dates. [/quote] My friend's ex always pulled stunts like OP did (ask a recent ex to babysit during his parenting time and make sure she knew it was because he had a date). Given that they had long been married, OP likely knew how she'd respond. My friend's ex was a sociopath and enjoyed the feeling of power and control he got from making her lose control, so he intentionally did things he knew would upset her just to watch her lose it and then bask in the power he still had over her and vent to our friends about it. His behavior was intentional and cruel, and it went on until our friend learned how to manage what little communication they needed to have to co-parent (grey rock, everything is recorded). [/quote]
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