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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This could be considered constructive desertion of the marriage and is grounds for divorce.

I divorced my ex when she did this. It wasn’t easy but like you I wasn’t going to cheat and after about seven years I decided I couldn’t live with the cruelty anymore.

I ended up with primary physical custody as the kids, who were teens, didn’t want to live with her. Turns out they felt as alienated from her affections as me.

In hindsight I realize she had some mental illness issues that contributed to this. And she actually WAS getting help for that but it turns out the therapist was counseling her to “self-actualize” and she took that to extremes and decided her family was the source of her unhappiness.

Five years later, me and the girls are ok. It’s bittersweet— I miss their younger years when we were an intact family. But even when I look back on those things now, I realize it was only ever me taking the girls somewhere solo from the time there were about 5 and 7. She was always demanding “me time” and sitting in bed, on her computer or whatever. [/quote]

:roll: [/quote]

My story made you nervous, I see. [/quote]

Not sure why it would. I am not married and have a great sex life with my SO. [/quote]

Since you aren't married, this thread doesn't pertain you. Please see yourself to the door and refrain from posting anymore, thanks.
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