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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Today I matched with a pretty cute guy on Hinge and the conversation turned fairly quickly to sexual subjects that I'm not really comfortable with.  First it was what I thought was a light hearted joke about him meeting women who wanted to go to sex parties, then next thing he's asking me if I've ever been to one, if I would go to one, and the conversation pivoted and kept coming back to it before he finally told me he dreamed of opening a strip club and I blocked him.

Are some men really so unselfaware that they think this is gonna lead to sex?  Is it just a fishing tactic to see who's gonna bite?  Was he trying to con me into some kind of Andrew Tate camming business?  I dont understand what could make seemingly otherwise intelligent men act like complete doofuses.  [/quote]

So IMVE the vast majority of women on the apps put out on the first date, especially the ones who say “no hookups.”

Most are totally DTF immediately. He’s just making the safe assumption.

If you’re a prude and this isn’t for you, that’s fine. Just don’t string him along. 
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String him along? LOL. FIrst of all, the LAST consideration for me. Second, she F'ing blocked him, and good for her, so that's not happening in any event.

It's totally fine for him to be into kinky/dirty stuff. That doesn't make OP a "prude." (You're kind of a dick for even saying that). What is NOT ok for him to jump right to it as soon as they start talking. Sorry, that's some straight up creeper sh---. And is a huge red flag, having zero to do with the sex part of it. [/quote]

No it's not a red flag.  Hinge is a sexual hookup app.  In fact OP isn't even saying she did not want to have sex with him.  She obviously did, that's the criteria she selected him on.  OP is just offended that the guy has her figured out so quickly.[/quote]

Hinge is not a hook up app! Why do people talk about these apps when they clearly have no clue? It’s literally designed for long term relationships. I know boomers have this fantasy that all dating apps are the equivalent of Grindr but it’s simply not the case and apps would be 99% male if it was[/quote]

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