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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is one of the few threads on DCUM where I don’t think anyone is trolling.  I can see why this guy wanted to be out in the open about his kinky stuff.   I can also see how OP got weirded out by it.  If you have never gone to sex parties and aren’t generally kinky, then it seems like this stuff is unreal or only happens in porn or whatever.  [/quote]

Both sides are entitled to their feelings on these things.

But, to me, it is SUPER CREEPY that he jumped right at it with OP. Dude is probs the type to send unsolicited dick pics. 
I'd be up for hearing the wants but not right out of the gate. [/quote]

Agreed. Imo a lot of guys are low key autistic and don’t have the social skills to realize that the wild, uninhibited sex they’re craving isn’t best spelled out verbally via text on a dating app. Men who actually manage to sleep with lots of women and are amazing in bed arouse that in women by NOT mentioning it directly. But many men lack the social processing to realize that the more explicit they are, the more women are turned off and LESS likely to sleep with them. Most men don’t know the first thing about seduction and it comes off as desperate and awkward. They know deep down that women don’t want to sleep with them which is why they attempt to get a verbal assurance of sex, because they’re so used to being rejected and deep down convinced it’s gonna happen again. And in that way they turn off women who would have been open to it. That’s why the few men that do know what they’re doing clean up with women and can literally land whatever woman they want- they’re relaxed and chill about it [/quote]

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