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You know when you come home from college and you forget your audience? You might curse or want to drink alcoholic beverages at odd hours? You spurt newly minted political views that your know are anathema to your parents. These kind of guys are so used to living the club life: dabbling in drugs, hooking up with instagram models with fake everything, dreaming of Miami and opening a strip club- that they forget their audience. It isn’t most guys, it’s lounge lizards.[/quote]

Totally, I think that's what it was. He's very attractive and I dont even think he was trying to be offensive, which is what was strange.  I think he really thought it was normal to bring up sex parties and all of that from the very beginning.  After a while it became annoying and awkward though- maybe he doesn't know how else to connect with people at this point?[/quote]

The way that I read your OP was that he was bringing it up because it’s a dealbreaker for him if you aren’t into that.  Kind of like some younger women bring up having kids early on.  It isn’t that they want to have kids right then, but if a man isn’t interested in that, then there is no point in pursuing the relationship.  [/quote]
Probably, although I don’t know how effective that dating strategy is from either side. A lot of men who would probably be open to having kids are going to be turnt off when a woman is bringing up babies with ten minutes, most women are going to be turned off when a man seems sex fixated even though they may be wild in the bedroom. True lotharios know this and never bring up sex immediately- also because the know they have the power to seduce even a prudish woman.[/quote]

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